- Seventh to ninth month
- Valaikappu bangles in Tamil Nadu
- Godh Bharai in North India
Where it began
Many cultures have blessed a mother before birth. In Hindu tradition, Simantonnayana is one of the old sacraments of life, kept during pregnancy to bless the mother and the child.
In Tamil Nadu, the Valaikappu ceremony fills the mother's arms with glass bangles. Legend says their gentle sound soothes the baby. Elders bless her, and she often goes to her mother's home for the birth.
The modern baby shower with gifts became popular in the United States after the Second World War, when many young families were starting out and needed help with things for the baby.
How it grew over time
Ancient India
Simantonnayana is kept as a blessing during pregnancy.
Traditional times
Regional rites like Valaikappu, Godh Bharai and Shaadh take shape.
1940s and 1950s
Baby showers with gifts become popular in the United States.
Today
Families mix old rites with games, decorations and photos.
How it is celebrated in different places
Tamil Nadu
Valaikappu brings bangles, flowers, sandalwood and a feast of many rice dishes.
North India
At Godh Bharai the mother's lap is filled with fruit, sweets and gifts.
Bengal
Shaadh brings the mother her favourite dishes and new clothes.
United States and Canada
Friends hold a party with gifts for the baby and light games.
Baby Shower moments
Baby Shower today
Today a baby shower is a warm day for the mother. Family and friends gather, bless her and the baby, and fill the day with food, laughter and gifts.
