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About Propose Day

Propose Day on 8 February is the second day of Valentine's week. It is a day to say what is in your heart, whether it is a first confession or a married couple choosing each other again.

Some people plan a quiet dinner, write a letter or give a ring. Many couples simply repeat the words that started their story.

The best Propose Day messages are honest, simple and kind, and accept any answer with grace.

  • 8 February
  • Day two of Valentine week
  • A day to share your feelings

Where it began

Asking for a hand in marriage is an old custom found in almost every culture. In many places families met first and the couple's elders made the match.

The engagement ring has a long story. Romans used rings to mark a promise, and in 1477 Archduke Maximilian of Austria gave a diamond ring to Mary of Burgundy, one of the first known diamond engagement rings.

It is part of Valentine week, the seven days from 7 February to 14 February that young people in India and nearby lands keep, one theme a day.

Down on one knee

How it grew over time

  1. Ancient Rome

    Rings are given as a sign of a marriage promise.

  2. 1477

    Archduke Maximilian gives Mary of Burgundy a diamond ring.

  3. 20th century

    Kneeling with a ring becomes a well known way to propose.

  4. Recent decades

    Propose Day joins Valentine week among young people in South Asia.

How it is celebrated in different places

  • India

    Young people share their feelings with flowers, cards and a ring or a small gift.

  • Europe and North America

    Many proposals happen on Valentine's Day or at Christmas.

  • Around the world

    Some families still meet first, keeping the old custom of asking the elders.

Propose Day moments

Popping the question, a print from about 1846
Courtship, in a painting by Lawrence Alma-Tadema
An engagement ring on a red rose
The Proposal, a painting by Eugen von Blaas

Propose Day today

Today some people plan a quiet dinner, some write a letter, and some simply say the words in person. The point is to be honest and kind.

How people celebrate Propose Day

  • Writing a letter
  • A quiet dinner
  • A ring or a small gift
  • Couples proposing again

How to wish well

  • Keep it sincere and simple.
  • Choose a calm, private moment.
  • Respect the answer, whatever it is.

Questions about Propose Day

When is Propose Day?

Propose Day is on 8 February, the day after Rose Day.

What do you say on Propose Day?

Say plainly what the person means to you and what you hope for together.

Can married couples celebrate Propose Day?

Yes. Many couples propose to each other again as a sweet reminder.

What is a short Propose Day message?

"Today, tomorrow and every day after, will you let me stand by you?"

What comes after Propose Day?

Chocolate Day on 9 February.

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