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About Promise Day

Promise Day on 11 February is the fifth day of Valentine's week. It is a day to make a sincere promise to someone you care about.

Couples promise patience, honesty and support. Friends promise to stay in touch. Some people make a promise to their parents or to themselves.

The best promises are small and real: ones you can keep every day.

  • 11 February
  • Day five of Valentine week
  • A day for honest promises

Where it began

Making promises is part of every love story. Wedding vows in many cultures are promises spoken out loud before family and friends.

In England in the 1500s and 1600s people gave posy rings, small bands with a short loving line written inside. Today some couples give promise rings in the same spirit.

It is part of Valentine week, the seven days from 7 February to 14 February that young people in India and nearby lands keep, one theme a day.

Matching rings, a promise kept

How it grew over time

  1. Ancient times

    Marriage vows are spoken as promises in many cultures.

  2. 1500s

    Posy rings with short loving lines are popular in England.

  3. Recent decades

    Promise Day joins Valentine week among young people in South Asia.

  4. Today

    People write promises in cards, letters and messages.

How it is celebrated in different places

  • India

    Couples and friends write a promise in a card or say it over coffee.

  • United States and Europe

    Some couples give promise rings before they are engaged.

  • Around the world

    Families make promises too, like more time together or a weekly call.

Promise Day moments

Walking on together
A wedding couple holding hands in the early 1900s
Two rings, two promises
A walk along the shore

Promise Day today

Today the best promises are small and real: to listen more, to call every Sunday, to cheer each other on.

How people celebrate Promise Day

  • Writing a promise note
  • Promises between friends
  • Promises to family

How to wish well

  • Promise only what you can keep.
  • Make it specific: a weekly call, a shared walk, more patience.

Questions about Promise Day

When is Promise Day?

Promise Day is on 11 February, the fifth day of Valentine's week.

What promise can I make on Promise Day?

Small, real promises work best: to listen more, to call every week, to always be honest.

What is a short Promise Day message?

"I promise to stand by you, on good days and hard ones."

Can friends celebrate Promise Day?

Yes. A promise to stay in touch is a lovely gift for a friend.

What comes after Promise Day?

Hug Day on 12 February.

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