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About Housewarming

About Housewarming

A housewarming marks the day a family moves into a new home. Friends and relatives come to bless the house and the people who will live in it.

In India the day is called Griha Pravesh, Grahapravesam or Puthumanai Puguvizha. Families choose an auspicious time, boil milk until it flows over as a sign of plenty, light a lamp and hold a small puja. In many other places a housewarming is a relaxed party with food and small gifts for the home.

Guests bring plants, kitchen things, sweets or a framed picture, and wish the family peace, health and many happy years under the new roof.

  • Griha Pravesh in India
  • Milk boiled over for plenty
  • Bread and salt in Europe

Where it began

One story tells that the word housewarming comes from the days when homes were heated by fire. Guests brought firewood and lit fires in every hearth, so the new house was truly warmed.

In Hindu tradition, Griha Pravesh is a ceremony to enter a new house. A good day and time are chosen, prayers are offered to Lord Ganesha and to the home, and the family steps in with the right foot first.

In many parts of India, milk is boiled in the new kitchen until it overflows, a sign that the home will always have plenty. In Eastern Europe, guests bring bread and salt so the family never lacks food.

A havan with a sacred fire blesses a new homeIndia

How it grew over time

  1. Ancient times

    Many cultures bless a new home with prayer, fire and offerings.

  2. Vedic tradition

    Griha Pravesh is kept as a rite to enter a new house.

  3. Medieval Europe

    Guests bring firewood and gifts to warm a new home.

  4. Today

    Families hold a puja, a lunch or a party and show friends around.

How it is celebrated in different places

  • Tamil Nadu

    A cow is sometimes led in first, milk is boiled over and the kolam is drawn at the door.

  • North India

    Families hold a havan, tie a mango leaf toran and break a coconut at the door.

  • Russia and Eastern Europe

    Bread and salt are given, and a cat may be let in first for luck.

  • Philippines

    Coins may be scattered in the new home as a wish for wealth.

  • United States and Canada

    Friends bring plants, candles or food to a casual party.

Housewarming moments

Everything set for a Griha Pravesh pujaIndia
A welcoming front porch with flowers
A new home with a garden path to the door

Housewarming today

Today a housewarming is a happy day of welcome. Family and friends visit, share a meal and bless the new home with their good wishes.

How people celebrate Housewarming

  • Boiling milk until it overflows
  • Lighting a lamp at the entrance
  • Mango leaf thoranam at the door
  • Puja or prayers
  • A meal for guests
  • Plants and gifts for the home

How to wish well

  • Wish the home and the family, not only the house: peace, health and happy days inside it.
  • If you are invited to a Griha Pravesh, arrive on time; it follows an auspicious hour.
  • Useful gifts are welcome: a plant, a lamp, kitchen items or sweets.
  • Keep jokes about loans and moving boxes light and kind.

Questions about Housewarming

What do you write on a housewarming card?

Congratulate the family on their new home and wish that it fills with peace, laughter and good health.

What do you say at a Griha Pravesh?

"Griha pravesh ki hardik shubhkamnayein". You can add: may this home always be full of happiness and blessings.

How do you wish a housewarming in Tamil?

"Iniya puthumanai puguvizha vazhthukal" (இனிய புதுமனை புகுவிழா வாழ்த்துகள்).

What is a good housewarming gift?

A plant, a brass lamp, a set of kitchen things, sweets or a framed picture for the wall are all popular.

Why is milk boiled over at a housewarming?

In many Indian homes, milk boiling over in the new kitchen is a sign of plenty and good fortune for the family.

What is a short new home message?

"New home, new memories. Congratulations and happy housewarming."

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