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About First Birthday

About First Birthday

A baby's first birthday is a big day for the whole family. It marks a year of first smiles, first steps and first words.

Families celebrate with a cake, balloons and relatives, and in many homes a prayer or a small puja. Some families hold a first haircut ceremony or other customs around this time.

First birthday wishes are for the baby and also for the parents, who have just finished their first year of sleepless nights and endless joy.

  • A milestone in every culture
  • Doljanchi in Korea
  • Blessings from elders

Where it began

In the past, the first year of a child's life was a time of great care. Reaching one year was a joyful sign, and families gave thanks with prayers and a feast.

In Korea the first birthday is Doljanchi. In a game called doljabi, objects such as thread, money and a pencil are set before the child, and what the child picks is said to hint at the future. China has a similar custom called zhuazhou.

In many Hindu families, the first year includes rites such as the first rice meal, annaprashan, and sometimes the first haircut, mundan, with blessings at home or in a temple.

Balloons ready for a first birthday party

How it grew over time

  1. Ancient times

    Families give thanks when a child reaches one year.

  2. Traditional Korea and China

    First birthday feasts include a game of picking objects.

  3. 20th century

    First birthday parties with a cake become common in many countries.

  4. Today

    Families gather for prayers, a party and many photos.

How it is celebrated in different places

  • Korea

    Doljanchi brings a feast, traditional clothes and the doljabi game.

  • India

    Families visit a temple, hold a puja and invite relatives for a meal.

  • Hawaii

    A baby's first birthday is often a big family luau.

  • United States and Europe

    A small cake just for the child is often part of the party.

First Birthday moments

A flower arch set up for a family celebration
Guests arrive under a balloon arch for a first birthday party
Colourful balloons for the big day

First Birthday today

Today the first birthday is mostly for the family. Grandparents give their blessings, relatives come together and everyone shares in the joy of the year.

How people celebrate First Birthday

  • A cake for the baby
  • Balloons and decorations
  • Prayers or a puja
  • Family photos
  • Gifts of toys and clothes

How to wish well

  • Wish the baby, and add a line of praise for the parents.
  • Toys that are safe for a one-year-old make the best gifts.
  • Ask before posting photos of the baby.

Questions about First Birthday

What do you write on a first birthday card?

Wish the little one a happy first birthday and a life full of love, and congratulate the parents on a wonderful first year.

What is a short first birthday wish?

"One year of smiles. Happy first birthday, little one."

What is a good gift for a first birthday?

Soft toys, stacking blocks, picture books and comfortable clothes are popular and safe.

How do you wish your own child a happy first birthday?

Write about a favourite moment from the year and your hopes for them as they grow.

What do you say to parents on their baby's first birthday?

"Congratulations on a wonderful first year. Your little one is lucky to have you."

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